Dear Valgal,

I am so sorry for your losses. As a mother who lost 8 pregnancies to recurrent miscarriage before my two sons were born, I understand how devastating this is.

You mentioned that you had testing done. I'm assuming that you've been tested for antiphospholipid syndrome, anti-cardiolipin and anti-nuclear antibodies. These are not remote or controversial tests but are part of the usual panel for recurrent miscarriage patients. Assuming you've tested negative for these, please visit this website:
http://www.americaninfertility.org/newsletter/thoughtsonmiscarriage.html

Richard Bronson, M.D., is an Associate Professor and Director, Division of Reproductive Endocrinology, University of Stonybrook. They specialize in chromosomal anomalies related to recurrent miscarriage. Perhaps he can help you.

Another option is St. Barnabus. They specialize in helping couples with recurrent miscarriage issues. Have a look at this website http://www.sbivf.com/info_Miscarriage.htm
Perhaps they can help you as well.

Please keep us posted on your progress.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Warmest regards,