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What if tomorrow or in a few days from now I find out I am not pregnant. Is there anything I could do or take that would help my chances of getting pregnant next month?
Also I have been told I should only have one thread so from now on when I have a question about anything I will be posting It here. Hopefully you all will keep and eye out to see If i have new question . Cuz I truely have no one els to ask these question to. thank you all for all of your help
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Hi Gale,
With a positive pregnancy test that had been performed as per the package instructions, you are most likely to be pregnant. So let's just wait for confirmation and we'll see from there, because if you are, there's nothing more for you to do.
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Lenore Goldfarb, Ph.D.,CCC,IBCLC Wife to Rob, Mom to Adam aged 13, and Ethan aged 9, both born via GS and breastfed via Regular Newman-Goldfarb Protocol.
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Alright. We will just have to wait and see . To be honest I have never been so scared. i feel dumb that it might come out negitive. even thow i had a test that came out lightly postive on the 22nd . just from everything i have read know . I am scared I could be that 15% that miscarries before there period is even due.
Were do you thin I should post that website I told you about?
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I just dont under stand . on the 22nd I got a faint line right away and today i took a fred and It was negitive. Whats going on?
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If you followed the instructions on the home test and checked the results right away, then the result should be accurate. With the first test, if you left it out for any length of time, it could give you a false positive result. With your recent negative result, did you test first thing in the morning or later in the day? First morning urine is the most concentrated. As for the website, just put it in your reply. "I found this great website www.whatever.com" This will activate the link automatically so that anyone can click on it and the page opens. Warmest regards,
Lenore Goldfarb, Ph.D.,CCC,IBCLC Wife to Rob, Mom to Adam aged 13, and Ethan aged 9, both born via GS and breastfed via Regular Newman-Goldfarb Protocol.
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I did the test the way you said i should. But I still dont know whats going on. If I am not pregnant is there anything Ican do or take that would help me get pregnant? What do you thing about clomid? I found a way to buy it online. or is there something els I could take?>
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I have heard that clomid has been linked to increased risk of ovarian cancer. How long have you been trying to conceive? I forget, did you do artficial insemination?
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I was my first try at insemination. And I did in-home insemination. is there anything els i could try to help me get pregnant that wont hurt me?
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I think you need to give more time. Things don't always happen on the first try. How did you learn about in home insemination? Maybe where you learned or who you learned from could give you some insight. You are due to start on Sunday why not just lay low for now and see what happens. You still don 't know if you are pregnant yet so no sense it getting all ready for next time when you may not need a next time. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Alright I will try. I am just so nervious. Thank you for everything ! Here is a cute website someone just sent me it's title is Queen baby style http://users.pandora.be/stefdirrix/flash/queen.htm
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hi there this sounds so familer. we tested our surragate came out very light (positive) , we then waited a few days and it came out negitive. well then we were on a mission, took many many more test all came out neg.... then her period came and went with no period. (we also got prepared to do it again) and well she was pregnant. Just takes time.. which is easier said than done...good luck...
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Hi thank you for replying to me I dont under stand this part(then her period came and went with no period. (we also got prepared to do it again) and well she was pregnant. Just takes time) How did you guy get her pg was it ivf or what? I need and advice I can get please
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the time for her period came and she never had a period.. we thought we were going to have to insemenate again.. but we did not have to. we also did an at home insemination
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any adivice on doing home insemination for me, If I am not pg this time that I could try next time? Maybe I missed something that i should have done and didnt know I was suppose to do. Please any advice would be really great!
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ITS POSTIVE IT IS IT OH MY GOD! IT WORKED ON THE FIRST TRY! I AM SO EXCITED!
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Congratulations Gale. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Hi Gale,
CONGRATULATIONS!! Did you do the blood test yet?
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I am waiting to call the doctors office on monday.But its not always eassy to get in right away.Also I really truelly thank you for all the suport and advice you gave me when I have been so scared the last few weeks.
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I had a question . What do you think of me using progesteron cream to help try to provent misscarige?knowing that I have never misscaried?
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I have been taking pg test for over a week now and they all came out positive and just know I went to the bathroom and I had blood on the t/p Whats wrong whats going on . Why is this happening to me???!!!
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Gale, I am a surrogte also. I really think you need to relax! It will be ok either way. You can try again. I dont think all of the stress you are causing yourself by worrying so much is going to help either way, In fact I think it might hurt you. You can be so stressed your body wont function properly. I think you need to STOP taking pregnancy tests and just try to relax till you can be seen by your doctor. I also dont think that all this emotion is good for the IP's. If they are like my IP's, all the worrying that I did, made them crazy with emotions 10 times worse than mine. Just RELAX, if its meant to be, it will be. You cant force your body to get pregnant!!
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Can being three days late on your period , Efeect the days you are suppose to ovulate????
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Yes. You are best to use some sort of ovulation predictor kit such as Clear Plan or Ovudate.
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How far off would my ovulation be ?
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Gale, There is no way any of us here can tell you how far off your ovulation could be. That is up to your personal cycle. A predictor kit is the best way to pin point when you are ovulating
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WOW Sorry to make you mad. I just thought you ladies might know. I wont ask anymore question.
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Hi Gale,
No one's mad. Sorry if you got that impression. That's the problem with advice over the web. It's hard to see the supportive face or gesture behind the words. Sometimes our members only have a moment to respond because they, like me, have little ones to care for. So if we seem abrupt, we don't mean to. All questions are welcome.
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Gale! If your refering to me. I was in noway mad! I hope I did not offend you. Lenore is right. I ment nothing mean. I infact did have my baby in my arms when I was typing and she was after the key board. Please do still post.
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Okay , I am sorry to then. I have to do insemination again in a few days do you ladies have any advice for me?
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So does this mean your period came? And it is very important to use a devise to monitor your ovulation.
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Cuz I truely have no one els to ask these question to.
Gale Gale, you have been on SMO and AAS asking these same questions. In fact you post there pretty often and start many threads.
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Anonymous? Why don't you register?
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You have lots of people to ask questions of on SMO and AAS. You do need to figure out what is really going on though since each site has a different version of your story. People are starting to notice and figure out dates just don't add up right. It might also be a good idea to use different user names on each one then you can't be traced if different stories are on different websites.
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Dear Anonymous . My stories dont differ. the posting you are reading are from a while ago. they are not current questions. I have not really been on this bord for a long time!!! If you do read my posting other place you would now that right know I am 7 1/2 weeks pregers and as of right know everything is going Well!!!!!! BUT thanks for your concern. [color:"red"] [/color]
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