Hello i've been reading these boards for a long time and I have posted a few times.
To give you a little history, we were contacted by a Birthmother on April 12, she responde to an ad that we had up. We ar in Ga and she is in Tx and so we formed a relationship and she chose us for her baby and so things were going well and she's not you average B-mom she's 35 awith 3 older kids and she knows she can't parent this child, well 3 weeks ago she told us that she had gotten behind on her car payments and it was going to be repossessed and she was also behind on he electric bill, well we decided to help her with her car because that was the only means of transportion to work, andthen she called and they turned of her electric a week later so we got it turned back on because she has kids, now we are doing an independent adoption with a lawyer and the state of Texas you cannot pay a b-mom expenses except medical, legal, and counseling, well this past weekend she told us that she was behind on her cable which is also her home phone and internet,and her cell phone which she said her 17yr ran up by text messaging, well we told her we could not help her because her co-pay at the doctors office was due and the lawyer fees were due and we our going on vacation all this month, well I received an email saying that she had a long conversation with her mother and bestfriend and they helpher realize that she is behind on her bills because she can't work as much as she needs to because she's pregnant and is we can't hlep her with her bills than she's concern about us being able to take care of her daughter. She usually goes to her mother for help but her mother is not helping her because she doesn't agree with her doing adoption and her mother says if she needs help than we should help her her and that's it. Now she's not answering my phone calls and we are very nervous, what do you think we should do?